Thanksgiving 2009

For the first time in several years, we spent Thanksgiving at Grandpa Lou's and Grandma Joan's house. It was nice to finally have the whole Silberman clan together again. Daniel was home from Udub, Lauren is living nearby again and we weren't in New York.

Samuel unpeals the wrapper from one of the turkey cupcakes that Emma made.
From the moment he saw the turkey cupcakes he insisted on having one, and went into meltdown when we told him he had to wait until after dinner. Steve finally negotiated for Samuel to sit on his lap for five minutes and eat two pieces of actual turkey before he devoured the cupcake and a half.

The rest of this post is a series of three videos. Once again, you can't see the videos on Facebook, if you'd like to watch them, go directly to my blog: www.mysunmoonandstars.blogspot.com

I am strongly tempted not to include the first video because you can hear me singing on it, and yes, I sound REALLY REALLY BAD. I mean embarrassingly bad, but it has my Dad's traditional self deprecating toast at the beginning, and it wouldn't be Thanksgiving without it. And really, since everything in the world is not about my vanity, I'll take one for the team. Just please ignore my voice.






Shira attempts to eat Steve's plate, and maybe some mashed potatoes too. She has yet to actually get any food very near her mouth, but it is only a matter of time.

Look Ma, No Hands!

shira sits! 5 months and 3 days.

and since being able to sit up on your own, and the imbibing of food are intimately related...shira was given her first chance at solid foods
and decided she'd rather wear it, than eat it
but she made a valiant effort at getting it at least near her mouth.

Taking after Mommy

This morning Steve introduced Samuel to my childhood favorite. Bread and butter. A half a loaf of bread later...

bed or jungle gym?

Samuel and Steve hard at work putting together the new bed

The finished product

we decided that having a trampoline in our backyard was not nearly enough liability for us, so we got Samuel and Shira a loft bed with a slide.

surprisingly, though the slide has been a big hit, the ladder is a large part of the entertainment as well. i forgot that getting up is just as important as how you get down.

shira also loves this bed. she is enthralled to watch samuel as he plays on it. he narrates to her as he goes up and down. talk about a perfect symbiotic relationship - he wants someone to listen raptly to all he has to say and shira loves to have people talk to her.

in addition, shira gets to be a part of bedtime stories, albeit on a different level (pun intended).

family

At first, it hit me by surprise at an impromptu dinner out with all of us together, though Shira was sleeping.

Maybe it was the candles and warm lighting. Maybe it was the cold outside contrasting with the coziness inside. It began to startle me in the morning when we all sat on the couch and read stories together. Now I notice it throughout the day, all the time.

First I was me. No, that's not true. First I was part of a family. Mom, Dad, Brother and Sister. Then it wasn't a family anymore. It was sometimes Mom, sometimes Dad and Joan, but mostly just David and Lisa/Big Brother and Little Sister. And then it was just Me. Teenager, alone Me. Then it was College Student alone Me. Then it was Me and Him (get obsessed Me, break up Me, fall apart Me, be alone Me - rinse and repeat.)

Then it wasn't just Me. It was Us. The Couple. Then the Married Couple. Then the Couple and Baby.

But now, I wake up in the morning part of a family.

And when I mean wake up as part of a family, I mean wake up in a bed with four people.

Is it the wintry air that causes us to turn on the heater and cuddle under blankets on the couch as we read stories that has done it? Is it the completion of our family with the fourth member? Is it moving past the hardest parts of infancy with the knowledge that it all gets better from here? Is it the enchantment of hearing our words come out of a little mouth that looks just a bit like us?

Whatever the reason, I constantly find my heart warmed and so full sometimes I think it could break to be part of something so wonderful with my children and my husband, something that I haven't felt myself since I was a child.

Music Together

Samuel and Sophia chilling in music class

The first time we enrolled in Music Together, Samuel spent more time playing with the curtains than he did interacting with the music, teacher, kids or instruments. He was 14 months. We quit.

After hearing how great "Teacher Joe" was from Shannon, and listening to how much Kathy and Britta both enjoyed music class, we decided to give it another try.

We just finished our third season tonight, and it is amazing to see how much Samuel has changed. He is excited to go to class every week (and not just because we stop at the office to pick up Steve and get a carton of milk first.)

He plays with the instruments, and is starting to show a real sense of rhythm. He talks to "Teacher Joe", and loves to use his pick to play the mandolin. He sings many of the songs both in class and at home, in addition to mixing and matching songs with nursery rhymes, and his own versions of his favorites. He loves it when Shannon and Sophia are in the same class as us. It is absolutely amazing to see how much he has changed over the last year.

Shira is enchanted by music class, and though she usually falls asleep on the way there, she always wakes up the instant the music starts. I think she might enjoy it even more than Samuel.

Video here: www.mysunmoonandstars.blogspot.com

Shira Shira Bo Bira