Monday, December 27, 2010

CDM Day

Steve went to work today :(

Samuel, Shira and I went to the Children's Discovery Museum. I didn't bring the camera, because really, how many pictures do I really need of the kids at the museum? And now that Samuel can easily walk from the car, and Shira will happily walk too (if I'm patient enough) all I need to do is carry a backpack with snacks, why bring the bulky camera?

I figured I wouldn't post about the museum, because really, how many posts am I going to write about the kids at the CDM? We go through periods where we're going at least once a week. Hence, no need to bring the camera.

Of course, after thinking all of that in my head before leaving, we get there, and there are like a million moments where I wish I could have taken a picture.

Well, not a million moments. But a few significant ones (at least to me), significant enough that I wish that I had brought that darn camera, and I'm going to post about it anyway, even absent the eye candy.

What was so cool about today? Well, for starters, Shira insisted on walking, all but leaping from my arms as we were crossing the street. Once on the ground, I asked her if she wanted to hold my had, which she willingly did. Samuel then asked if she wanted to hold his hand, at which point she sprinted over to him, holding both of her hands out with an enormous smile on her face. She refused to hold my hand as well, preferring to be tied only to her big brother. The sight of the two of them happily holding hands, proud loving important big brother and adoring little sister, words cannot describe...

Samuel engaged with one of the special exhibits which he had always ignored in the past. It was about how people with disabilities (missing legs, hands, etc.) are able to do everyday things. He was fascinated by the prosthetics, the bicycle that you pedal with your hands, asked thoughtful questions.

And when Shira expressed a desire to go one way, and Samuel wanted to go the other, we did Samuel's choice first, and when we were ready to move on, he specifically said we had to go play with the bubbles, as "that is where Shira wants to go next."

Samuel was able to complete the art project without any help from me, came up with his own design, and in the end created multiple stories for his puppets. So cool.

Shira was able to do the toddler art project all on her own, despite the confusing nature of the medium. The museum froze water mixed with water color paints on popsicle sticks and then encouraged the kids to paint with the popsicles. Umm, what were they thinking? Toddlers want to eat everything anyway. Give them paint that looks like food, and then think they aren't going to eat it? And what is Shira going to do the next time I hand her a popsicle? Try and paint the walls?

And our final triumph of the day, I have been hesitating writing about, since I don't want to jinx it. But here goes anyway. Shira has been diaper free for 4 days now. She even made the entire drive to the museum without a miss. She told me when we were almost there that she had to go potty, I pulled off the freeway and she went pee in the bushes of the Merrill Lynch parking lot. She told me every time she needed to go while we were at the museum. And she wore pants the whole time. I put her in a diaper for naptime, but that's it. Woohoo!

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Double Day: Oakland Zoo followed by Ice Skating


Steve and Samuel have an assignment for preschool coming due soon, and so they needed to get working on it. The assignment is for Samuel to pick a topic that he wants to learn more about and he and Steve need to create a project to present in front of the other Dads (or other non work parent/family member) and kids. Samuel really wanted to learn about wolves, but we don't have a place to go see wolves around here. Steve and Samuel were able to agree on monkeys for their area of study.

So this morning, off we went to the Oakland Zoo to check out some monkeys. Surprisingly, I think it was actually closer than the SF Zoo, and definitely more oriented to little kids.
This swinging guy and his buddies looked pretty happy. The Chimpanzees on the other hand... not so much. I'm not a big fan of zoos. I feel so bad for the animals in cages. Another reason I don't feel great about pets.
The zoo also had a nice playground and petting zoo with goats and sheep.
Samuel took this picture of the alligators, "So that I can see them whenever I want."

After a brief pause at home for Shira to finish up her nap, we headed out again to join our friends Rebecca, Penelope, Ana, Yosh and Lillian at the ice skating rink for Samuel's and Shira's first skating experience.
There might be some skating lessons in our future. They both loved it!
Samuel has been talking about skating (and playing hockey) ever since Popsie took him to the Sharks Season Opener while Steve and I were at Oded's wedding in NY. As soon as we told him we were going skating, he told us he had to put on his jersey, "because that is what you wear when you are skating to keep you warm." Samuel had such a great time. He is also a big fan of the Zamboni, of course.

We didn't intend to put Shira out on the ice (who knew they made skates that tiny?), but she absolutely insisted. A case once again of "If Samuel is going to do it, then I damn well better be able to do it, too." That girl is determined, and very good at getting her point across. If I hadn't taken her onto the ice, she made it very clear that she planned on going out there completely by herself.

Full Circle Farmers

Steve took a couple of days off this week and joined us on some adventures. Yesterday morning we did some farming at Full Circle. Added compost to some growing chard and planted two rows of fava beans.


Monday, December 20, 2010

Secret Santa Holiday Party

Thanks, Efsun, for organizing and hosting

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Samuel's gift

Samuel planted this bulb at preschool and presented it to Steve and I as a gift. Now it's blooming. Gorgeous! And so cool to see living things grow. Hope it's still blooming when he gets back from Bubbie's house.

Friday, December 17, 2010

Weekend with Bubbie

Shira and Samuel are currently enjoying their much awaited weekend at Bubbie and Popsi's house.

Miss them like crazy.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Growing Up

Every day Samuel seems like more and more of a big kid. There are so many things that he can do on his own now, "only" 3 really seems like a misnomer.

He has been able to dress himself for some time now, though if we slip up and help him a couple of times in order to get out the door more quickly, he'll insist that he needs our help everyday after that. If he picks out his clothes himself, he will invariably insist on shorts and a tshirt, no matter the temperature outside.

Samuel's teachers and other parents marvel at his ability to focus on a task that interests him. One mom told me, "I'm always excited when Samuel comes to my project table, because it means someone is going to really get in to whatever task I am in charge of." What task would that be? Most likely drilling or sawing or baking or anything that requires tools. Painting and stamps also continue to rank high on his interest scale.

The art of negotiation is definitely not lost on Samuel, and I wonder if Steve and I might find ourselves outmaneuvered in the years to come. Samuel wants to know how long a minute (or other period of time is) and if he can have just one more of whatever unit we are speaking of (minutes, oranges, etc). And if we stick to our timeframe, can it be "a long minute"? This morning, for the first time I am aware, Samuel asked Steve for something, was answered in the negative, and then came to me to ask for the same thing. He also tries to negotiate with Shira, sometimes successfully because he wills her into his desires with the power of a big brother or because he thinks of a way to give her something that she wants that costs him nothing; sometimes unsuccessfully because she is unwilling to have the wool pulled over her eyes and screams hysterically grabbing at what she believes is hers.

The last few months have been challenging behaviorally. Samuel is testing limits and does not always exhibit the gentle and caring side that we have become accustomed to. When he experiences frustration at not getting what he wants, he will yell at us, and tell us not to talk to him (especially Steve). Lucky for us, he rarely tantrums, and pulls himself out of these moods very quickly. Within minutes we will be back on track, and Samuel will have moved passed whatever was causing his disappointment.

Despite our occasional power/control struggles, Samuel is an all around charming and thoughtful kid. We are having more discussions recently about how lucky we are and how not everyone has a place to sleep, enough to eat, or presents on holidays. When we saw a couple of homeless men outside Whole Foods, and I explained to Samuel what their signs said, he requested that we buy them something to eat.

Samuel continues to be an extremely loving and affectionate child, not only to me and Steve, but to Shira as well. It is wonderful to see how much they adore each other and how much Samuel cares about "his baby."

There are so many other things he has been doing and saying recently, I wish I could remember everything that Steve and I have been marveling at recently. He has expressed a lot of interest in letters and sounds and what words start with what letters. Physically, he is very well coordinated, rides his bike with more skill and finesse every day, and continues to try and find things to jump off of and "tricks" to accomplish.

Shoe Fetish

The girl is obsessed with shoes. Her shoes, Steve's shoes, Samuel's shoes, my shoes, rubber galoshes, boots, tennies, patent leather shiny shoes, you name 'em, she'll try and get them on her feet and walk around in them.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

EC update






Shira is 17 months old now, and using the toilet quite regularly. For the past several months, we have found that as long as Shira is naked from the waist down, she tells us when she needs to go to the bathroom by touching her crotch and grunting. Not the most elegant sign in the world, but excellent communication none the less.

In the past couple of days I have been experimenting again with putting her in pants without a diaper, reminding her that she has no diaper on, and telling her she needs to tell me if she needs to go potty. And so far, it's been working!

On a side note, I might be biased, but she might just be the cutest little girl on the planet, no?

Friday, December 10, 2010

Monday, December 6, 2010

Chanukah Partay!

Lottie convinced us to host the family Chanukah Party this year, and because I was in an agreeable mood at the time, I said yes.

At least I was smart enough to insist that we do it during daylight hours. And I was lucky enough that it didn't rain. And so all those under 5 feet tall spent their time outdoors:
Yes, I did say under 5 feet, and that includes Lottie and Estie, though as far as I know they did not take a turn on the trampoline, preferring to stand near the hot oil and shredded potatoes.
Just the appetizer section of the spread of food
Definitely the most Menorahs ever being lit in this house. I wonder if we should try to make into the Guinness Book for most Menorahs lit on a given night of Chanukah. Does an entry already exist? Anyone? How many do you think you'd have to have to make it happen?
Gift opening mayhem

Friday, December 3, 2010

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

My 35th Birthday Celebration

I may have finally figured out how to do my birthday. This is the first year I can really recall where I had zero expectations. We have been so tired recently, and have had so many social commitments lately, that all I wanted to do was get through the month of November and first week of December in one piece. And in the end, this is the most pleasant, relaxing, birthday I can recall at the moment.

The Monday before my birthday, my Mom came up to celebrate with us. As per her request, I told her what birthday dessert I wanted, and my Mom jumped through every hoop imaginable to get it for me.
Ice cream cake, of course! But not just any ice cream cake. This cake came from Penny Ice Creamery in Santa Cruz, a new local, sustainable, artisanal, organic, (probably hipster) ice cream joint owned and operated by the former pastry chef from Manresa restaurant in Los Gatos. It was stupidly expensive, and absolutely worth it.

How good was said ice cream cake? Well, half was gone the night of the birthday celebration. Steve and I ate at least one piece a night for the next three nights until we finished it off, just the two of us. And my slices were probably bigger than Steve's. Anyone who knows me and knows my relationship to sweet things and dessert knows that is a testament to how frickin good I thought that cake was.
Just a few members of my awesome family.
Smiling for my Hero. Speaking of which, it didn't even occur to me that Steve would get me a birthday present, and he got me the most perfect thing ever - an Italian espresso pot so that I could fulfill my goal of becoming addicted to espresso the very morning of my birthday. What a thoughtful husband.

On the actual day of my birthday, Steve's parents flew in to spend Chanukah with us. My Dad and Joan came over for dinner, and I was able to relax because I had made the main dish the night before - day of birthday wish accomplished - I didn't cook on my birthday.

And to cap off my birthday week - after the big family Chanukah party that we hosted at our house, Lottie and Estie and Tom and Susan cleaned up, while Steve and I escaped to a hotel in the city. What did we do there for 24 hours? Why, nothing but eat and sleep.

Perfect.

Thank you family!